Whilst the world of wedding planning may seem like one that is very much female-dominated, it doesn’t have to be. In today’s modern world, if you want to be involved in some, or all, of the planning, then you can do more than nod at flowers and say yes, or taste cakes and say which you like. It’s all about showing just how invested you are in your special day, and we are not talking about a version of “Don’t Tell the Bride”, but rather putting your own stamp on the day that celebrates your partnership.
Whether you are all about the logistics of the big day or releasing your wild side on the dance floor, read on as we explore some tips to help plan your wedding.
Start with a vision
Before either of you can start to plan the wedding, you need to discuss what your vision of the big day is. If this varies widely between the two of you, create a vision that encompasses both of your dreams in a meaningful compromise. What kind of celebration do you want? Will it be something formal or more relaxed? Church or licensed wedding venue? This will help you with all of the other decisions you will need to make.
Set a budget
One thing that is certain to cause arguments between any couple is money, particularly if there is overspending. Be upfront and realistic and set a budget that you can work with – you may need to do a little research in order to find out what sort of costs you might be looking at.
Pick the perfect venue
There are some truly wonderful venues all over the country. However, if you are looking for a destination that has everything, from dramatic landscapes to quaint villages, serene lakes to fantastic hotels, you really will be hard pushed to find anywhere better than Lake District wedding venues. Whether you want classic country charm or modern elegance, no matter what destination you choose, there are some things to consider.
Think about the mood
Are you looking for a location that is rustic and romantic? Or somewhere that offers you plenty of grandeur? How important is it that you have plenty of wonderful backdrops for your photographs?
Visit in person
The right venue for your wedding is one that is worth a visit. Photos can never really give you the full picture – they will have been taken specifically to show you the best a venue has to offer – so take time to visit the local area and see a venue in person.
Ask about packages
Some venues will offer all-inclusive deals, and this can really help to take a lot of the stress out of organising your big day, with coordinators who can help you.
Plan for the weather
The weather in the Lake District can be wonderful and, combined with stunning scenery, makes the perfect backdrop for an outdoor setting. However, it can also be fickle. Make sure that you have a backup in case that unexpected visitor, in the form of bad weather, decides to attend.
Your role should just be symbolic
If you really want to get involved in planning your wedding, then help by taking ownership of some of the key decisions. You might want to take on tasks like researching entertainment, options for alcohol and even transportation logistics.
Make sure that you are involved in the guest list so help with curating your VIPs and any sensitive invitees who may need careful handling. Take on the task of looking after the suits for the men in the wedding party.
It is important to build a day that feels like you both, and that is infused with your personalities. Remember to make sure that your planning allows for some meaningful moments just for the two of you. Don’t allow the day to take over; this is your special time. There is no template for the perfect wedding; what is right is how the celebration of your special day feels to you. Make sure you take that into consideration when you are planning, and above all, take time to enjoy yourselves as much as possible.
